Support for Partners
When the person who you love is struggling, who supports you?
Discovering that your partner has been unfaithful or betrayed the boundaries of your relationship can feel overwhelming, isolating, and deeply painful. Many partners describe the experience as a betrayal that shakes their sense of trust and safety within the relationship.
You may be experiencing a wide range of emotions—shock, anger, sadness, confusion, or even guilt. It is common to question your own worth or wonder if you did something wrong, but this is not your fault. Sex addiction is a complex issue, and the impact it has on partners is very real.
Counselling and therapy in a safe, comfortable and private setting
I offer compassionate, confidential counselling for partners, where you can:
- Explore and process your feelings without fear of blame, judgement or criticism
- Rebuild self-esteem and self-worth separate from your partner’s struggles.
- Learn grounding and coping strategies to manage anxiety and stress.
- Gain clarity about your needs and boundaries moving forward.
- Receive support in deciding what feels right for you and your relationship.
Some partners choose to focus on their own healing, while others may eventually explore couples therapy when both parties are ready. Both paths begins with you having the space to be heard and supported.
Emotional Pain & Betrayal
You might be feeling blindsided, hurt, angry or as though your relationship foundation has been destroyed.
You might be feeling 'silly' or like you have been 'taken for a ride'.
You might be questioning your value, attractiveness, or whether you were ever “enough.”
A problem shared...
Discovering that a loved one has been unfaithful or betrayed your relationship promises can be incredibly isolating. Many people resist telling friends and family for fear of further judgement.
Anxiety & Hypervigilance
You might be feeling constantly on edge, searching for reassurance, or fearing relapse.
These are just some of the many reactions and emotions that partners can feel after a discovery. Whilst incredibly painful, these emotions amongst others are normal. They are part of what many call betrayal trauma, and with the right support, it is possible to heal.
Betrayal
Trauma
Depression
Relationship problems
Problems with confidence or self-esteem
Regret
Anxiety
ANGER Loss of trust
Sadness
Post-traumatic stress
Grief and loss
Work or retirement
Abuse
Family or school life
Get in touch
Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about how counselling works, or to arrange an initial assessment appointment. This enables us to discuss the reasons you are thinking of coming to counselling, whether it could be helpful for you and whether I am the right therapist to help.
You can also call me on |phone| if you would prefer to leave a message or speak to me first. I am happy to discuss any queries or questions you may have prior to arranging an initial appointment.
All enquires are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.